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  Weddings
 
  Preliminaries
 

 

 

If you are intending to marry a partner who is not a Catholic but who has been baptised in a Christian church, your partner will need to obtain this certificate from his or her own church of baptism. If your partner has not been baptised, is a member of another faith, or has no religious faith you will require a special dispensation from the Bishop to have a Catholic wedding. If you or your partner have been married before you will not be able to have a Catholic wedding unless the marriage was one which the Catholic Church does not recognise as truly valid. (You would need to consult St Patricks's or your own local Catholic Parish Priest about this).

  Normally at least six months notice is required for a wedding. It is your own responsibility to contact your local Registrar for Marriages etc. in order to obtain the requisite Civil Certificate, without which you cannot be married. The Registrar will provide you with a blue form which you must give to St Patrick's well before the wedding is due to take place.
  Marriage Preparations
1. In this country you are required to attend a number of preparatory meetings before you get married in order to make sure that you understand the marriage vows you will be taking, and the obligations and responsibilities you are undertaking in your married life. These have to be completed before your wedding, and can either be arranged informally as meetings at St Patrick's, or they can be arranged together with other engaged couples in more formal meetings arranged by the local deanery or diocesan area office. In either case you will need for marriage at least two meetings with St Patrick's, first to provide them with all the details, certificates etc, and secondly to arrange the details of the wedding service itself. A practice session will also be needed in the church on one of the evenings immediately before your wedding so that you can feel confident enough for the service itself. If you have arranged with St Patrick's for your wedding to be celebrated by a different priest, a practice session should if possible be arranged with him instead.
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Catholic weddings are either celebrated with a Nuptial Mass – which is obviously a rather more splendid sort of wedding, with hymns, Eucharistic Prayer and Holy Communion, or they are celebrated as simple services outside Mass with or without hymns and Holy Communion. If either or both of you prefers not to or feels unable to receive Holy Communion (eg because one partner belongs to a different Christian denomination) it is often better to choose a marriage service outside Mass - though not being a Catholic does not automatically mean your partner cannot receive Holy Communion if he or she shares our belief in its meaning. If a large number of the congregation will wish to receive Holy Communion, some special arrangements will need to be made to provide Eucharistic Ministers as well as enough hosts, and St Patrick's will need to be consulted about this well in advance of the Service.

 

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